In a society where being slim is deemed as the “ideal” body type, lovely ladies in the larger side are often excluded in discussions on sex and sensuality. However, sex is a beautiful experience that anyone should be free to do it without inhibitions.
Body image is one of the biggest reasons why women tend to hold back from having a satisfying sexual experience. In addition, not all sex positions are possible for everybody, which may also discourage women because of the discomfort.
Fortunately, there are a lot of other sex positions that are comfortable and pleasurable, regardless of size. Here are some sexy positions that may help curvy women embrace their sensuality and get down and dirty with confidence!
Doggy Style
To do this classic position, the receiving partner gets on their hands and knees. The giving partner is positioned behind, either by kneeling or standing, and enters the vagina or anus. They can use the receiving partner’s hips to help with leverage or to do deeper or more vigorous thrusting.
This position can get tiring on the arms after a while, so you could also try its variation — the resting doggy style. The receiving partner can put pillows under their tummy for support and come down to their forearms.
Missionary
The receiving partner lies on their back, while the giving partner can lay on top or kneel in front to penetrate their partner. The receiving partner can put pillows under their hips for extra support and easier penetration.
Some say that the missionary position makes them feel more intimate and connected with their partner because they can admire their partner’s face while in action.
Spooning
Like how you’d cuddle up with your partner, but with added spice!
Both partners lie on their side, facing the same direction. The receiving partner can lift their leg so the giving partner can enter easily.
You can experiment with the angles to find what works for you. The giving partner can also use their hands to play with their partner’s breasts or stimulate their clitoris as penetration happens.
Butterfly
The butterfly is said to be one of the best sex position for people of all shapes and sizes.
The receiving partner lies on their back at the end of the bed, with their butt resting on the edge. If you’d like to get creative, you can try doing this on other places such as a table or a kitchen counter. The giving partner stands between the legs of the receiving partner to penetrate.
If you’re the receiving partner, you can put your legs up in the air or bend and hold them at the knees. Some say that getting their legs on their partner’s shoulders gives them more pleasurable sensations in the vagina, including the G-spot.
For penetration to happen smoothly, you have to find the right height of furniture. The receiving partner can put a pillow under their hips to get a better angle. Just like the missionary, the butterfly also allows greater intimacy and kissing.
Reverse Cowgirl
The giving partner lies on their back, while the receiving partner “rides” by straddling on top. It’s exactly like the cowgirl position. But in the reverse version, the receiving partner is facing away instead of towards their partner.
There are a lot of ways to make this position more comfortable. The receiving partner can put their hands at each side of their partner’s legs so they can lean forward and support themselves. They can also stimulate their clitoris as they ride their partner!
Other tips and reminders
You’re not limited to the sex positions mentioned here. What works for some may not work for you. And you can always get creative with the positions! Find out what works for you, and let your partner know whether you want to try something new or if something doesn’t feel good.
Use pillows to adjust the angle or to support your body while you’re in action. You can also include sex toys in your playtime with your partner.
You may feel self-conscious about your body size, but curvier girls can have a healthy and happy sex life just like anyone else.
Just be open to your partner and let them know what you like and dislike, and don’t forget to practice safe sex!
Sources:
https://flo.health/menstrual-cycle/sex/pleasure/sex-positions-for-overweight-people
https://www.webmd.com/sex/sex-positions-for-overweight-people
