Even before the COVID-19 pandemic, we’ve already had several methods of getting intimate with sexual partners over long distances. There’s sexting, (which is “sexy texting”) and sending nudes. And there’s also such a thing as phone sex, sometimes called “sex on phone”.
It’s the art of getting sensual and sexual over the phone through raunchy conversations and naughty sounds.
Having phone sex can actually be a good way to get kinky with your partner on days you can’t be together. And it could be a nice, fun way to keep the flare of your relationship strong. And that’s what we’ll be talking about in this article.
So ready your voices, fellas, and prepare to learn about phone sex!
What is it?
As the term implies, phone sex is a sexual activity that takes place over the phone. It involves engaging in sexually explicit conversations with a partner, using words and one’s imagination to create a sensual and erotic experience.
Through verbal communication, participants can describe their fantasies, engage in roleplay, and stimulate each other’s desires, ultimately heightening sexual pleasure despite physical distance.
How do we #DoItRight?
As with many other sexual experiences, there’s a proper way to do this. It’s vital to understand the necessary steps to safely conduct phone sex to ensure that everyone involved feels happy and comfortable. Here’s how.
Practice communication and obtain consent
These two things should always be a part of any sexual encounter or any relationship for that matter.
You could directly ask your partner if she’s up for some phone sex. Or, you could start by teasing her through some sexting. (Sexting could also serve as foreplay, something to get her enticed.) If she’s willing to get kinky over the phone, then rejoice and proceed to the next steps!
Set the mood
This means several things. You need to get rid of distractions. Find a quiet environment where you won’t be disturbed (and where you won’t be disturbing anyone.)
Once that’s done, you can finally begin the call!
Start it right
Go easy after your partner picks up. It could also help if you two establish a conversation leader, someone who controls the flow of the exchange. The leader has to be more vocally active than the other.
Be bold and creative
If you end up being the leader, you have to take control of the call. Tell your partner what you’d like to do to her if she were right in front of you. Describe how you’d caress or touch certain parts of her body.
Even when your partner wants to be the conversation leader, you’ve got to listen well. A big part of phone sex is paying attention to the one who’s talking. Let your imagination go wild as your partner tells you how she’d like to please you.
In case you and your bae wanna spice it up, you could turn it into a video call and show each other the “goods.” That might add to the fun and excitement.
Finally, remember to embrace and enjoy the experience. Phone sex opens up a world of exciting possibilities and allows you to explore your desires and fantasies in a unique way.
It can offer the same level of pleasure and intimacy as physical sex while stimulating your imagination and focusing solely on verbal expressions of desire.
The next time you and your bae are spending the night apart, remember that it’s still very possible to get intimate. Just always remember how to do it right! Value consent, have open communication, and never ever dial the wrong number!
Sources:
- Kassel, G. (2020, February 24). How to have the hottest phone sex of your life. Healthline. https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/how-to-have-phone-sex#consent
- Zane, Z. (2021, November 2). There’s never been a better time to start having phone sex. Men’s Health. https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a32129335/how-to-have-phone-sex/
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