Communication is part of any relationship. It should be a big part of sexual relationships, too, as sex is an intimate act that requires trust and openness. Relationships blossom through communication, after all, and it could lead to new and exciting experiences. 

One of the ways talking can unlock doors to steamy sexual encounters is through sexting or “sexy texting,” a playful and thrilling way to explore your desires and build an intimate connection even when you’re physically apart. 

Whether you’re a newbie looking to learn how to get into sexy texting or a veteran who wants to improve your game, there may be something for you here.

So, gentlemen, ready your phones and prepare to delve into the art of sexting! Together, we’ll unlock a world where words can spark exhilarating exchanges and (possibly) lead to bedroom encounters. Let the adventure begin!

What is it?

Sexting is the act of exchanging sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos using digital communication platforms like text messaging, social media, or instant messaging. 

It allows individuals to express their desires, fantasies, and flirtatious thoughts in a virtual space, adding an extra layer of excitement and anticipation to their sexual interactions. 

Sexting can range from subtle and suggestive messages to more explicit content, depending on the comfort level and consent of the participants involved.

How do we #DoItRight?

Remember that she’s a person, too. That means you have to talk to her with respect. You might be looking to flirt and have a good time, but if she’s too busy or not willing to reciprocate, you’ve got to accept that. If she’s free and texts back, then yay for you!

Start by asking how she is. Don’t be a total weirdo and send a raunchy text right away. You have to go easy and actually communicate first.

Always remember consent. When it comes to sexting, consent is paramount. It’s crucial to ensure that both you and your partner are comfortable and enthusiastic participants in this exchange.

If you really wanna spice it up, you could consider sending dick pics or nudes. That ought to make your partner bite her lips and shiver with excitement to see you in person. But of course, you have to do it properly. Get a Nudes 101 course to level up the experience.

Lastly, you need to keep in mind that sexting isn’t just for pleasure. It’s a form of communication, which means it can be helpful in building your relationship with the recipient.

And that’s it! Sexting can be a thrilling and intimate way to connect with your partner and explore your desires. However, you have to remember that behind the screen is another person with their own boundaries and comfort levels. 

By prioritizing consent, respectful engagement, and mutual enjoyment, you can create a satisfying and pleasurable sexting experience that enhances your sexual relationship. 

Good luck on your next sexting session, and we hope you never send a naughty message to the wrong person!

Sources:

• The Promescent Team. (n.d.). The art of sexting: Tips, guidelines & examples for men. Promescent. https://www.promescent.com/blogs/learn/sexting-tips-for-men 
• BARE Therapy. (2023, April 12). A man’s guide to sexting – expert advice from a sexologist. Man of Many. https://manofmany.com/lifestyle/sex-dating/a-mans-guide-to-sexting
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