When it comes to orgasms, two is better than one and the more the merrier, right babes? And as vagina-owners, we also have the privilege to possibly experience different versions of orgasm — at the same time. We can have a loooot of different orgasms, according to sex experts, but the two most known types are the clitoral and vaginal orgasm.
All kinds of orgasms are amazing, but there’s a different kind that’s making a lot of noise (literally): blended orgasm. What’s better than having two different orgasms at the same time?!
What is a blended orgasm?
Just as how its name conveys, a blended orgasm is having two different kinds of orgasm simultaneously, resulting in a more intense response. There could be different combinations depending on what kind of orgasm you experience, but the most common combination is the clitoral + g-spot. This means that the clitoris and vagina should be stimulated at the same time to get that blended orgasm.
Can anyone experience a blended orgasm? Yes, but it could take some practice. Remember, ladies, that an orgasm — whether blended or not — isn’t the ultimate goal of sex. Just enjoy the moment and do what makes you feel comfortable.
How to achieve blended orgasms
Even if you know how to achieve both clitoral and vaginal orgasms separately, you might still need a little practice to have a blended orgasm. The best strategy for chasing an orgasm is to not think about it. No need to rush or pressure yourself. Make it about achieving pleasure and enjoying the moment.
There isn’t a specific step-by-step guide that will assure everyone that they’ll get a blended orgasm by the end of it. You don’t really have to stimulate both your clitoris and g-spot at the same time. If one takes more time and effort to peak, focus there first.
Going solo shouldn’t stop you from enjoying sexual activities and the benefits of orgasms! You can go free-hand, or use sex toys such as a rabbit vibrator.
With a partner
If you have a partner, you can tell them the best way to stimulate your clitoris and g-spot. There are also certain sex positions during penetration that increases the chances of getting a blended orgasm. Some find cowgirl or reverse cowgirl and spooning to be great positions for this, but do what hits the right spots.
Every body is different, and what works for some may not be effective on others. No pressure for you to get blended orgasms or for them to be the clit + g-spot combo. Having a pleasurable moment and getting your sexual needs satisfied are already major wins!