Missionary 101 for Men

If you’ve done your fair share of sexual exploration, there’s a big chance you’ve already tried the missionary position. It’s the most classic and well-known position in the book, after all. Some would even call it “basic” since it’s probably the easiest sex position to get into.

But don’t let its commonness fool you into thinking it’s mundane or predictable. There’s so much more to this position than meets the eye. It’s like a trusted old friend that always delivers pleasure and intimacy, offering a strong foundation for exploring the depths of passion. 

So, whether you’re a seasoned sexual adventurer or just starting your journey into the world of sexual exploration, let’s plunge into the secrets of the missionary position and unlock its full potential for pleasure and connection.

What is it?

The missionary style, also known as the man-on-top position, is a classic sexual position where the person with the penis lies on top of their partner, who lies on their back.

This position allows for face-to-face intimacy, eye contact, and deep connection between partners. It involves the penetrating partner thrusting their hips while the receiving partner can engage in various forms of stimulation, such as kissing, touching, or wrapping their legs around their partner’s body. 

This position is often the go-to position for many couples due to its simplicity, versatility, and the level of intimacy it offers.

How do we #DoItRight?

Although the missionary style is very well-known among the sexually active, there are some tips and tricks that could elevate it and make the experience more thrilling.

Take advantage of the position

Sexual partners who are doing the deed in the missionary position are placed face-to-face with the man (or penetrating partner) on top. Remember to use this to your advantage! Make out with your girl while doing it, or maybe kiss her neck.

While you’re at it, use your hands and fondle her breasts or grip her waist. There are several things you can do as a man during missionary!

Try different variations!

Missionary may be a simple sex position to assume, but it has different variations that can allow partners to enhance their sexy time. Here are some of them.

  • The closed missionary is when you wrap your partner’s legs around you, allowing you to penetrate really deep into your sexy time playmate.
  • You can go “legs-on-shoulders.” This means you lift your girl’s legs and keep them on your shoulders while doing it. See if your girl likes it.
  • There’s also the pretzel missionary which adds an exciting twist to the experience, almost literally. In this position, the receiving partner lies on their side, creating a comfortable and relaxed posture. The top partner straddles the bottom partner’s leg, allowing for deeper penetration and a unique angle of entry. 

You might also want to try putting a pillow under your partner. That should raise her hips and provide a new angle.

Keep in mind that when experimenting with positions, it’s vital that you pay attention to how your partner responds! Make adjustments whenever necessary.

Do some work outside sexy time

As the man in the relationship, you’ll be on top of your partner whenever you do it missionary style. You’ve got to be conscious about whether she’s having the best time of her life or having trouble breathing, though. 

That means it could be a big help if you find some time to work on your body. That ought to make you more in shape and ready to get on top of her.

Go out for a jog, hit the gym, or regularly play a sport. Of course, eating well and getting enough rest are very helpful, too.

If you’re in good shape, you won’t have to worry about crushing your partner and taking her breath away in a bad way.

And that’s about it. The next time you and bae wanna get kinky and she lays down on the bed, you’ll have a few tricks up your sleeve. And the next time you hear someone say that missionary is basic, you know what to tell ‘em!

Follow these tips to stay on top of your missionary game, (pun intended) and check out our other articles for more secrets on how to have sex the right way!


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